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Choices, Abortions and Freedoms

In response (warning: my responses go long) about abortion leaving many “women with an ache in their soul they will carry for a lifetime” and the issue about, “it has also killed millions of little girl babies”, (speaking of the UNFPA programs which includes funds to China)… 

I can see how there are women who have decided to have an abortion who have regretted the decision later in life or those that have been led to have an abortion by their parents or a boyfriend because they felt it wasn’t time or it was a bad idea to have a baby at the given time. I can see this argument. 

I can most definitely see how the idea of aborting an unborn fetus, baby (however any one believes) at any stage because of its gender or believed status in any culture is just not right. I see that point, very clearly. I think the laws of China need to address this overall issue and I don’t think the US should play a part in this at all. 

I have my views, lots of them. However, on many issues, I don’t impose my views and I don’t feel they should rule the lives of others. 

I do believe there are instances for abortions. I will always stand for the right of a women’s choice. There are not going to be women walking in and out of a clinic for an abortion with smiles on the faces proud of what they do. 

It is not PRO-ABORTION. It is PRO-Choice and PRO-Life. I am for both. We do not live everyone’s life and do not know everyone’s circumstance but I do know enough to know if someone is raped, they do not deserve to have that decision made for them nor should they have to fight to have the right to make that decision while they are suffering through the rape they just went through. 

I do not believe a women, or her family, should have to fight for the right of a woman who could die due to the baby she is carrying. Again, this is a choice for a woman, her family and her doctor. 

This is not a parade of abortions or killing spree, this is about being able to choose what is best with the help of the mother, family support and doctor. 

It is the same thing as having to make a life or death call of a child who is facing end of life and whether or not more chemo could maybe give them 6 months of breath or no chemo give them 2 months of being able to enjoy those 2 months playing. These are tough calls that people suddenly have to make but they should be up to the people involved, not the courts, not the federal or state government. 

Those women who have to carry that ache in their heart because of the abortions they had, they did have the ability to make those choices. The pain afterward is something they didn’t know how it would affect them just like one can’t know how it would have affected them had they decided not to go through with the abortion. That is the thing with making a decision.

You know what it feels like to not have a choice? Ask people in countries that are ruled by dictators or use the same example at the top. China.

This is not about Romney or Obama, this is about choice. 

Romney’s Women “Issues”

My thoughts going into Tuesday’s Presidential Debate was whether Mitt Romney would be up front when questions were asked about Women’s Health Care issues. On many occasions he either avoids answering the question or takes an indirect approach giving a broad answer to leave a person wondering his answering is referring to.  It’s not  that he is confused about the question but simply avoiding answering. You see, Romney has either changed his position on policies so many times it has become difficult to say where he stands on many topics of Women’s health choices or he won’t flat out admit his position and risk losing a large amount of votes.

Here are some facts as Mitt Romney states himself.

Romney wants to just get rid of Planned Parenthood. Planned Parenthood is made up of more than 800 facilities across the nation that have been providing affordable healthcare to millions of young adults, women and families. This was started 96 years ago with one clinic opened by Planned Parenthood’s Founder, Margaret Sanger.  Services provided include lifesaving screening for breast and cervical cancers, affordable birth control, pregnancy testing as well as testing and treatment for HIV and access to safe abortions.

They are and always have been around to help young people learn more about their health, sex education, making the right choices and staying actively involved in their communities and reaching out to rural areas. For many women, this has been their only access to regular healthcare.

President Obama realized our country had a serious issue. Millions of Americans had no health insurance. Millions more were insured but were still unable to meet their financial obligations or were filing for bankruptcy due to overwhelming medical cost after their insurance companies had stopped paying claims. The reason stated was they had reached the policy’s “lifetime cap” or “yearly cap”. There were also the millions of Americans who were unable to get insurance coverage or become reinsured after becoming ill or surviving an illness like cancer, diabetes, COPD and numerous other diagnoses the companies would list as “pre-existing conditions”. It was as though the insurance companies were looking out for themselves.

Video- What does the new Affordable Care Act do for me? How does it work?

So, we have this crashing economy, people losing jobs, homes and President Obama made it one of his top priorities to fix the healthcare issue in the United States. Not his only priority but one of his top priorities.

Why?

If people are sick, they can’t work.

If people can’t see a doctor, they can’t get better.

If they go to a doctor, without having insurance coverage, they run up enormous bills which eat up their earnings, run into debt and can lead to bankruptcy

If their child is sick and they have no insurance, they can’t go to work, have to chose to either not take the child to the doctor or go without insurance and run up enormous bills (you see the pattern here)

If people are sick with something that is a preventable illness, don’t go to the doctor, the condition becomes chronic and often becomes fatal (i.e. blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, asthma)

So, the idea of fixing the issue with affordable health care for those millions with health insurance doesn’t just get people insured. It helps people stay at work, know their kids can be healthy or see a doctor when they are sick, manage their income better, stay in their homes instead of losing them to bankruptcy due to medical bills and get people medical attention before many conditions become chronic or life threatening.

Well, Romney has some plans too…

Mitt’s idea of providing care for those without coverage – “We don’t just let them die…We pick them up in an ambulance”

Where could women receive care if Mitt takes away Planned Parenthood. He says, “They can go anywhere, it’s a free society.”

Romney doesn’t have much respect for women especially when it comes to policy but he smiles and says nice things for their votes, sometimes.

He does however have very opinionated views on Moms staying home to care for their children…

Get a job…to have some dignity…

Not sure how his wife feels about that statement but I feel my job, as a Mom, has been extremely important and my “Dignity Cup” is very full. Thanks, Mitt! Get some dignity for yourself.

Much of this election will certainly have effects on women. Since President Obama has been in office, he signed the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, a bill the GOP blocked in 2007. To this point, Romney hasn’t said whether HE, HIMSELF supports this Bill or not. His campaign has bounced around statements recently finally landing on one saying Romney will not repeal it if he becomes president…

President Obama also extended funding for The Violence Against Women Act, something Romney has stated he wasn’t “familiar” with and still leaves unclear where he stands on this very important issue. In fact, if you go to Mitt Romney’s Campaign Website, look through his “issues” area, WOMEN are not even listed!! There are listings for regular things like; taxes, education, healthcare and foreign policy but then there is; Court and The Constitution, Gun Rights, Human Capital and Values (that is where abortion, Stem Cell research and marriage are).

There is always a lot at stake in any election. This election can bring about many changes that will either allow women to continue in the advancements that have already been made. These not only benefit women but their families, their businesses and all of America. Or, this election can bring about an unraveling of the progress that has taken place over decades for women, their rights, the ability to choose and the overall approach we take as Americans in what we are willing to give up and for what?

This is not just about women and their choices but this is about every American, our choices, our freedoms and our rights. In America, we are one. We are strongest when we see the strength within ourselves and in each other.

Women are all over America, Mr. Romney. We are in all job markets, Fortune 500 companies, every income bracket, the armed forces, teachers, doctors, scientists, engineers but that isn’t what makes us who we are. We are each individuals, living our lives, making our choices, struggling through situations and helping those we love along the way. The fact is we know who we are.

I promise you, we aren’t in binders or just sitting around in women’s groups waiting for someone to come find us as worthy for something. We are already there. We are voters who will be a major deciding factor in this election. We know who we are. Do you?

 

 

UPDATE:

Visit http://tracysolomon.me to read my response to some comments on this article.